Lead by Example

In my new book, "Impact Mentoring: 200 Ways to Make an Impact as a Mentor and Colleague," I discuss the power of role modeling. Sometimes the best way to inspire another is to lead by example. People notice when behaviors and qualities resonate with them and they try to emulate them. 

Role modeling, a concept studied by Bandura (1977) in his social learning theory, underscores the impact of observing and emulating the behaviors of others. In the mentoring context, leading by example allows mentees to witness the practical application of principles and values. By embodying these qualities, mentors not only convey their commitment to the mentorship but also illustrate the benefits of embracing these attributes.

This happens whether is a mentoring situation or not.  I can tell you that early in my administrative career I always wore a white pressed shirt and tie to school. I didn't do it to be noticed, I did it because I like to look nice with a pressed shirt. A colleague came to me one day and told me how she noticed how I 'always' wore a pressed white shirt to school and it made her want to dress more professionally. I obviously thanked her, but the incident didn't fall on deaf ears. My attire made an impact.

In another area, if a leader or mentor encourages punctuality and consistently arrives on time to work or meetings it will send a clear message to everyone about the importance of this value. Others will be more likely to adopt a similar stance. 

Leading by example not only imparts values but also inspires mentees to strive for personal and professional growth. When mentors exhibit qualities such as resilience, adaptability, and a growth mindset, they encourage mentees to embrace these traits as well.

As psychologist Albert Bandura stated, "In learning through modeling, people ascertain the boundaries within which they are to regulate their behavior." By observing the mentor's success through these qualities, mentees are motivated to explore and expand their own boundaries.

The impact of leading by example will influence the broader workplace culture, fostering a climate of positive behavior and values. When mentors consistently demonstrate qualities like teamwork, integrity, and effective communication, they contribute to an organizational culture that reflects these principles. This, in turn, benefits the entire workplace by promoting cooperation, trust, and professional development.

Ultimately, leading by example is a commitment to paving the way for others to follow in the journey towards excellence. It is a simple choice.

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Encouraging Adaptability

It is so vital to emphasize the importance of being flexible and adaptable in changing environments with new teachers. With things changing around us so rapidly, it is so important to be flexible and adaptable. Change is never easy and those that can roll with the changes find more success. Adaptability is a key determinant of success. Research, such as that conducted by Tugade and Fredrickson (2004), highlights the importance of psychological resilience and adaptability in facing adversity and change. Mentors should recognize that their mentees will encounter evolving landscapes, both in their careers and personal lives. Mentors can help to empower their mentees to embrace change, respond to challenges, and thrive in dynamic environments.

Adaptability begins with a mindset shift. Mentors should encourage their mentees to view change as an opportunity for growth and learning. Embracing change allows individuals to gain new experiences, develop innovative solutions, and expand their skill set. Mentors can share their own experiences of adapting to change and highlight the lessons they've learned. These stories serve as practical examples of how to navigate uncertainty and leverage change for personal and professional development.   

Mentors should emphasize the importance of flexibility and open-mindedness. Encouraging mentees to be open to new ideas, willing to change course, and adaptable in their thinking fosters innovation and creativity. Mentors should also provide guidance on how to be flexible in their work approaches and open to alternative solutions. This practical advice helps mentees become more agile in their decision-making and problem-solving.

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Weight Loss Secrets or not

Since I have been losing weight, I have been asked about my 'secret'.  Really, I don't have one. Once I exited the hospital after COVID almost took my life, I became an insulin-dependent diabetic. Daily injections were the norm until my doctor told me he wanted me to try a new medication which is a weekly injection.  He said it was Monjaro. I was in total agreement with anything that allowed me to not inject myself daily. There were side effects including loss of appetite, which certainly has helped but it is not the only reason I have lost over 75 pounds in the past year. The secret is in calories and exercise. 

Energy balance is at the heart of weight management. The concept is simple: the calories we consume (calories in) should match or be less than the calories we burn through physical activity and your body's metabolic processes (calories out). Calories in + Calories out = weight gain or loss. Understanding this balance is crucial in achieving your weight loss goals.

To shed excess pounds, it's essential to maintain a calorie deficit. This means consuming fewer calories than your body needs for daily activities and basic functions. When your calorie intake is less than your calorie expenditure, your body turns to stored fat for energy, resulting in weight loss. It takes roughly 3500 calories to make a pound so do the math.  A calorie deficit of 500 calories a day will mean a loss of 1 pound a week or a significant 52 pounds in a year. For me, I added daily workouts.  I run a minimum of 2 miles a day and have been going non-stop all year. Recently, I have been jogging 3 miles a day which keeps me in a caloric deficit.  

No doubt, willpower comes into play.  The easy part for me is that I am a diabetic. I can't have sugar, and carbs in excess are not good either.  I limit myself to proteins and fats, which is another good choice that was forced upon me. Needless to say, successfully navigating your weight loss journey hinges on understanding your daily caloric needs, achieving the optimal balance of calories in and calories out, and the significance of meal timing and frequency. My book on all this is about finished where I discuss all of these points. Stay tuned.

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Building a Team

Teamwork is the most important thing we can build in an organization. While leadership plays a pivotal role in guiding an organization, it is the collective efforts of a well-built team that truly can propel organizations to new heights. When a leader focuses on building a team, they prioritize bringing together individuals with complementary skills, expertise, and personalities. Through effective team building, leaders ensure that each member's strengths align and complement the weaknesses of others, thereby creating synergy. Synergy is the phenomenon where the combined efforts of a team result in an outcome greater than the sum of individual contributions. This synergy leads to increased innovation, problem-solving capabilities, and productivity within the organization.

Teamwork fosters an environment that encourages diverse perspectives, ideas, and solutions. By incorporating different viewpoints, team members can generate a wider range of ideas and innovative solutions to complex challenges. Collaborative brainstorming sessions and open discussions enable teams to tap into the collective knowledge and creativity of their members, which can lead to breakthrough innovations and novel approaches. This collaborative environment nurtures a culture of continuous learning and improvement, driving the organization toward success. 

An effective team allows for the distribution of responsibilities and workload among its members. When tasks are shared, individuals can focus on their areas of expertise, leading to higher-quality outputs. Additionally, shared responsibilities foster a sense of ownership and accountability within the team. Team members feel motivated to perform at their best and meet or exceed the expectations set for them. This shared sense of responsibility promotes a positive work culture and increases the overall efficiency of the organization.

The bottom line is together we all succeed, divided we fail. It's good food for thought.

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If Nothing Changes, Nothing Changes

Change, a fundamental force that shapes our lives and societies, has been a subject of contemplation and action since the dawn of time. I'm sure Caveman was disrupted when a tribesman suggested another way to forage. No doubt, it has been disruptive from the beginning. Change is a dynamic phenomenon that propels us forward, yet its implications extend far beyond its surface. As an educator, entrusted with the responsibility of helping to steer the course of our educational institutions, I stand firm in the belief that change, if harnessed purposefully, can be a catalyst for growth and progress. However, let us remember the adage: "If nothing changes, nothing changes," and heed the wisdom that cautions us against changing for change's sake.

The very notion of change inherently suggests a departure from the status quo, a departure that seeks to improve, refine, and adapt to the evolving landscapes of knowledge, technology, and societal dynamics. It is a reflection of our innate human capacity to envision a better future and take action to bring that vision to life. However, the pursuit of change requires a thoughtful approach, one that is grounded in intention, strategy, and a clear understanding of the underlying motivations.

Change for the sake of change is a perilous endeavor, akin to a ship setting sail without a destination. It may lead us astray, leaving us disoriented and uncertain of our purpose. Therefore, as we traverse the uncharted waters of transformation, it is imperative that we do so with a steadfast commitment to purpose. This commitment compels us to analyze the present state of affairs, identify areas of improvement, and craft a vision that is rooted in our core values and educational mission.

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Wake-Up Call

Imagine a moment in your life that stopped you in your tracks, a moment that served as a jolting wake-up call, prompting you to reassess your path and inspire a profound change. These pivotal moments often come unexpectedly, catching us off guard, and altering the course of our lives. These moments usually serve to make lasting changes in our lives.  With weight loss, however, we struggle. It takes time and consistency to gain weight and it takes even more time and consistency to lose it. When we all take the opportunity to view before and after pictures of ourselves in either state, the moment catches us. Though it may not inspire a change, it does make a profound impact.  I know, because I have seen the images of myself, and choose to forget them.  I ask myself: How did I let myself get away like that?  That is the same question many people ask daily. The journey is not easy but it does lead to a healthier more vibrant life. As I can attest, excess weight can be an all-encompassing burden, affecting not only our physical health but our emotional well-being as well. It's more than just a number on the scale; it can lead to diminished self-esteem, strained relationships, and a life overshadowed by health challenges.  In my case it was high blood pressure and insulin dependent Type 2 Diabetes. I would tell myself that I was going to get fit, then something would get in the way and I would forget. It is an emotional toll and physically exhausting, reinforcing the notion that the journey to weight loss is more than skin deep.

I am currently just finishing my new book Reclaiming Health.  I wanted to give reader a story of not only how I gained but most importantly, how I lost 75 Pounds in less than a year. I will give only a sneak peek into the secret: consistency. 

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Self Reflection

Currently, I am just putting the finishing touches on a book about mentoring.  The title is Impact Mentoring: 200 Ways to Make an Impact as a Mentor and Colleague.  It is a collection of tips and strategies that I have picked up throughout my career.  Some of the information I touch on in this personal blog of reflections.  In this entry, I am going to discuss one of the principles that shine throughout the book: the power of self-reflection.  One of the most profound responsibilities a mentor can have is to guide mentees in thinking critically about their actions and decisions. This, of course, can be said about anyone in a leadership capacity as well.  The difference is in the trusting conversation. Once advice has been delivered, the mentee is on their own to take action.  Their own self-reflection on the action is where the learning takes place. Self-reflection is not merely a mirror into one's past; it's a compass to a brighter future. The act of self-reflection is akin to looking into a mirror, but instead of seeing one's physical image, it's an opportunity to examine one's thoughts, emotions, and actions. It's a process that allows individuals to pause, ponder, and learn from their experiences. In essence, self-reflection is a journey of self-discovery and personal growth. Encouraging self-reflection nurtures the development of critical thinking skills and the ability to make informed decisions. As mentor and mentee engage in discussions that prompt self-reflection, mentees learn to analyze their experiences, evaluate the consequences of their actions, and consider alternative approaches. This interaction is an important part of the mentoring relationship.  Helping people to do better by being better.  It's not as simple as it is stated.

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