Every so often, we come across moments that remind us what community really means. Sometimes it’s small such as holding the door for a stranger or offering a kind word when someone looks like they’re carrying the weight of the world. Other times it’s bigger like choosing to step into a difficult situation, to speak up for someone who doesn’t have the strength, or to remind others that dignity and respect aren’t optional.
It has always been my personal philosophy to try and be part of the solution. My father always said, "Stand up for what is right". Thanks to my Dad, an educator of 40 years, I was instilled with the moral belief that there are those among us that need assistance whether or not they make it known. He taught me that standing up for what is right is more than the defense of a person that has been wronged. It can be the defense of an ideal. such as living in a fair society when people are cutting the line. It is striving to live up to the standard, above the line, even when it's difficult. Sometimes it is standing up for the lessor among us that may be nameless, such as helping the poor or destitute.
Standing up for the “lesser among us” isn’t always glamorous. It rarely comes with applause or recognition. In fact, it often requires quiet courage, the kind that says, “Even if no one else sees this, I’ll do the right thing.” Think of the student who notices a classmate sitting alone at lunch and decides to sit down next to them. Or the teacher who spots a child slipping through the cracks and finds a way to connect. Those small acts add up to a powerful truth that when we stand up for others, we strengthen the entire fabric of our community.
It is reflecting upon whether my actions are part of the solution, or part of the problem. It is being part of the greater moral and ethical push to be better everyday. Sure, there will be those days when decisions are wrapped with failure of the ideal, but soon there will be a new day to get it right. We can then make the right choices, right the ship, and become part of the solution.
As a flawed human being, I know I am not perfect. I also know that I can strive for perfect and never reach it, but at least I am trying every day to be better. As I tell students, to be better, we need to act better. Only then will a change become noticed.
Until next time...