Simple

There’s a simple lyric from Michael Franti that’s been echoing in my mind lately: “Work hard and be nice.” I play this song for my kids quite often in the mornings as a reminder at the start of their day. On the surface, it doesn’t sound like much, just five words strung together. But if you let them sink in, you realize they carry the kind of wisdom that could transform not only classrooms, but entire communities. When you think about it, life is rarely smooth. Every one of us is carrying something that others can’t always see. Could be a worry, a past mistake, a health concern, a family struggle, or even just the weight of showing up every day and giving our best when our best feels stretched thin. We all have our cross to bear. Sometimes it’s obvious, but most of the time, it’s invisible. And yet, in the midst of all that, we still bump into each other. We share hallways, meeting rooms, playground duties, and countless conversations. Those interactions can either add to someone’s burden or help lighten it. Too often, without even realizing it, we slip into criticism: “You didn’t finish this.” “You should have done that.” “You always…” or “You never…” Those little “you” statements can sting, especially when someone’s already carrying more than they let on. But what if we tried something different?

What if we shifted from “you” statements to “I” statements? Instead of, “You’re not listening to me,” we try, “I feel unheard when I’m talking.” Instead of, “You need to step up,” we say, “I would appreciate more help with this.” That simple shift changes the tone. It takes the edge off and opens the door to understanding. It invites dialogue instead of building walls. So back to the song and the lyrics. Here is where Franti’s lyric hits home. Working hard is essential and none of us are strangers to effort. But being nice is the piece that transforms effort into impact. Kindness is not weakness. It doesn’t mean lowering standards or avoiding accountability. It means approaching others with encouragement before criticism, with support before judgment. It means remembering that everyone is fighting battles we can’t always see. In schools especially, this message matters. Our students watch how we handle conflict, how we talk to one another, how we respond when we’re frustrated. They’re learning not just from our lessons, but from our lives. When they see us practicing patience, offering encouragement, and choosing to lift each other up rather than tear down, they’re learning what real community looks like. 

It is my personal challenge to notice the way I communicate. To pause when I am speaking and pick my words. To pay attention to moments when criticism may be a first impulse and then ask, “How can I make an impact with this?” Because at the end of the day, our legacy won’t just be measured by the test scores or the programs we implemented. It will be measured by how we treated the people we worked alongside and the students we served. 

If you haven’t heard Michael Franti’s song, it is worth a listen. Work hard. Be nice. It is universal in application and so simple. 

Until next time...