Pay It Forward

Last spring, a small moment reminded me how the simplest acts can ripple outward in ways we might never fully see. A teacher walked into my office with a gift bag saying, “I thought you’d enjoy this,” she said, handing it to me with a smile. I opened the bag and found one of her favorite books. There was no special occasion, no hidden agenda. Just a thoughtful gift from one reader to another. Now, if you know me at all, you know that books are my weakness. A good story or a fresh perspective is like oxygen for my brain. I accepted it with genuine gratitude, then immediately began flipping it over to read the back cover. That book became the next on my reading list and it was wonderful. That simple gift reminded me that reading is more than just a skill we teach, it’s a bridge we build. Every book is a doorway, and when we hand one to someone else, we’re not just passing on paper and ink, we’re passing on possibility. So, I decided to pay it forward.

I chose a different teacher, someone who didn’t know this little chain of kindness had already begun. I told the teacher I was bringing the book. No reason, no celebration, it was just because. I then told her the story, and stated “I’m paying that gift forward. I’m asking you to do the same when the time feels right.” That’s the beauty of paying it forward. You can’t always predict where the gift will land next, but you can trust it will keep moving.

In our world where our days are jammed with making plans, deadlines, and a thousand small fires to put out, we sometimes forget that one of the most important things we give our students isn’t on any official curriculum. It’s an example of kindness in action. Whether it’s lending a hand, offering a listening ear, or sliding a book across a desk, we are teaching them what community looks like. And when that kindness comes in the form of a book? Well, now you’ve got a double win. You’re modeling generosity and you’re fueling the love of reading. So here’s my challenge for you this year. If you receive a book from another, pay one forward. Pick one you’ve loved, or one you think someone else will. Tell them it’s part of a chain. Tell them the only catch is that they have to also pay it forward. Ask them to keep it moving. As far as the book is concerned, you never know if it will inspire or if it will be loved as you intended. You simply need to take stock in the fact that your kindness has been delivered. Throwing the unknowns aside, I can promise you that when that person takes up reading the book, they will turn a page, pause, and think of you. And that is a story worth writing.

Until next time...