Keep

This week, I found motivation from Shakespeare’s Claudius in Hamlet, "When sorrows come, they come not as a single spy but as battalions." I suppose the more current saying would be “Bad things come in threes.”  We have all heard one or more variations of these sayings at one time or another in our lives. The sentiment is that negative events come at us in bunches. Life has a way of throwing challenges at us, sometimes not one at a time, but all at once. It can feel overwhelming when the setbacks come in battalions. This week I was also given a better answer, or truth, in response. The blessings of life are often found in the struggle. To fold your cards and stop playing is never the answer. To give in to a negative event is to let it define you. Consider the idea of boiling water. While it softens a potato, it hardens an egg. The same adversity produces different outcomes, not because of the water, but because of what lies within. Circumstances don’t determine who we become. Our character does. One bad event doesn’t have the power to ruin an entire day unless we give it permission. Refuse to be affected by the negative, and you will never be infected by it. With that, I jotted down a list, of what I call, ‘Keeps’.

Keep moving forward. Keep positive. Keep devoted to your goals. Keep unwavering in your ethics. Keep laughing, even when it’s hard. Keep your head up and your heart open. Keep learning something new every day. Keep extending grace. Keep your promises. Keep shining your light. Keep encouraging someone else. Keep taking care of yourself. Keep daring to dream. Keep your patience when it’s tested. Keep building bridges, not walls. Keep choosing kindness. Keep faith in the process. Keep resilience in your spirit. Keep gratitude at the center. Keep celebrating small victories. Keep listening more than you speak. Keep finding joy in simple things. Keep being a role model. Keep hope alive. Keep showing up, even on the tough days. Keep giving more than you take. Keep trusting the journey. Keep your curiosity alive. Keep smiling. Keep asking good questions. Keep courage in your pocket. Keep forgiving quickly. Keep seeing the best in people. Keep sharpening your skills. Keep writing your own story. Keep standing for what’s right. Keep humility at the forefront. Keep peace in your words. Keep balance in your life. Keep passion in your work. Keep your eyes on the bigger picture. Keep planting seeds for the future. Keep good care of your knees, you’ll miss them when they are gone. Keep believing that your impact matters.

When the battalions of sorrow march in, do not surrender your spirit. Call on your inner strength, hold firm to your values, and let your character rise to do the fighting. A single bad moment does not have the power to own your entire day unless you choose to hand it that authority. Instead, stand strong in who you are, stay grounded in what matters most, and keep perspective in the face of adversity. Remember that it is never the boiling water itself that determines the outcome. What matters is what is within. The potato softens, the egg hardens, but both sit in the same pot. In the same way, the circumstances of life do not define you. It is what you are made of that makes all the difference.These are the things I often ponder. The difficulty for all of us is in the execution. Words hurt. Actions hurt. Sometimes our students, and students’ parents do both. Yes, your response matters, though we should not let it infect us and our thinking. That will simply lead to stinking thinking. Nobody needs that. You matter more. You cannot help anyone or be there for your students if you are not taking care of yourself. (cue Michael Franti - Sound of Sunshine)

Until next time...