Misery loves company

Throughout my career I have experienced my share of negativity. Negative situations and negative people that have the potential to infect others. Though this is the case, I have always tried to avoid these situations because I believe in the power of positivity. I also understand that misery loves company and I certainly don’t want to extend the invitation.

As an educator of over 25 years, I have observed the idea of social gravity in both adults and students. By definition, social gravitation happens when people are attracted to each other. This phenomena in human physics is the reason why certain people naturally gravitate toward one another while others unknowingly recede. Understanding this, it is not too much of a reach to say that misery will find and gravitate toward misery. Conversely, happy people will attract happier people.

Now, it is important to note that displaying empathy is not accepting of the negativity. Being a supporter of a friend or family member going through a difficult time is and always will be the right thing to do. Avoiding negativity can happen when you are an active non-participant. Complaint sessions by anyone do not have to involve everyone. The most wise decision is to avoid the people that will try to add you to the misery party list.

I have found in life that there are people who will do everything possible to help you succeed and there are also those that are not so helpful. Some do their best to place hurdles in front of you as you are on your path to reaching your goals. Embrace those challenges and be so good you cannot be denied. Just as darkness cannot exist in the presence of the light, negativity cannot compete with positivity. If misery is left alone, alone it will remain. So just remember, misery loves company, so don’t invite misery to the party.

Until next time...