Friday, October 31, 2014
Perspective
Friday, October 24, 2014
The Right Thing
I was meeting with a parent the other day and caught myself using the phrase “the right thing” and realized my mistake. I understood, directly at that moment, the lens with which I was using to determine the ‘right thing’ in this student situation was different for the parent. Yes, there are two sides to every story, two viewpoints from which to have an opinion, and two lenses to see through, providing no real clear definition of ‘right’. It is both a matter of perception and reality. Of course, when dealing with matters of law, ‘right’ is very clear. Break the law and you have the ‘right’ to remain silent. It’s not so easy when ruling over a request to give assignment redo’s, grade a re-take test to full credit, offer 2 or 3 or 4 chances for behavior infractions. When is the ‘right’ time for “tough love”? ‘Right’…’Tough’…’Love’. Perception or Reality? You decide. Have a stupendous Friday. Go Pups, get #9!
Friday, October 17, 2014
It's Okay to Win
I was having a conversation with a coach about student success. How difficult it is to teach our students that it’s okay to be successful. That it’s cool to be smart. That it’s acceptable to be happy with winning. Many times, students that have not had a whole bunch of success, don’t know how to act. The emotion is new and territory uncharted. For some, the struggles of daily life make them forget to keep looking up and not down. Success is a measurement of perseverance in difficult times and it should be admired. We need to teach our students that when life presents us with adversity, the answer is to not wallow in misery, but to answer with action. Choose to celebrate the positive and work hard to overcome the negatives. Champions of business, finance, sports, or other endeavors all have a fanatical drive to reach their goal (cue Let’s Go Crazy – Prince). The challenge is not rooted in the objective, but the focus. Have a super Friday and a fabulous weekend. Go Pups!
Friday, October 10, 2014
Music and Movies
We all love music and movies. As we close another Homecoming week of dress-up, music, and fun, I guess it’s time I explain why I have musical references in my updates. When I was young, I lived in the country with only 3 TV stations, but we had radio and a great set of 8-tracks (Don’t hate!). Around the house and on long trips we used to play games such as “Name that Tune” as the new song switched on the radio (first to yell the title won) or “If I was in a movie, what would the soundtrack be?” The brainstorm of songs was hilarious to say the least, with of course, my Mom always winning with her pick of Helen Reddy – I am Woman (so sorry…had to say it). Now however, the games are gone but the great memories and the soundtracks remain. So the song references are reminders that however stressed or difficult times may be, there is always time to smile and possibly create a memory for a student. What happens in your classroom and the relationships you build are yours. So ask yourself, what soundtrack is playing? Have a remarkable Friday and a most excellent weekend. Go Pups!
Friday, October 3, 2014
Everyone has a place
It’s time to talk about a few things that have returned: October has arrived, Christmas is at Target, and the Dog Bowl trophy is in our Lobby (You have to love cross town rivals). Speaking about the Dog Bowl, what an event to showcase the Hanford community (cue Small Town, John Mellencamp). We know from the events of this past Monday that this is a small community where news travels very fast. We cannot control what happens outside of school or on social media, we but can concern ourselves with providing the best opportunies for our students while here. If we believe that everyone has a place here at Hanford High, it becomes our inherent challenge to not only tell them, but to show them daily. Have an exceptional Friday. Go Pups!